Top Ten Gentlemanly Gestures Women Notice
It’s a pity how Gentlemen are becoming a thing of the past. Most men shy away from chivalrous gestures for the fear of being branded as misogynists! Role models to show us how to behave like true gentlemen is becoming an increasingly rare phenomenon.
Today we will attempt to address this issue by showing you the 10 of the most important Gentlemanly gestures that can change the way how a date goes.
These ways are old world, sometimes subtle, non aggressive, but always significant ways of showing a woman that you are attentive, respectful and well mannered!
These ways are old world, sometimes subtle, non aggressive, but always significant ways of showing a woman that you are attentive, respectful and well mannered!
Walk outside on the Sidewalk
Men who like to take long walks and engage in stimulating conversations have always been associated in women’s mind as old world and charming.
Intelligent women will understand the chivalry in this unrushed, attentive and engaging gesture. While sewage is less of an issue today, but it’s a good idea to keep your woman away from puddles and traffic.
Intelligent women will understand the chivalry in this unrushed, attentive and engaging gesture. While sewage is less of an issue today, but it’s a good idea to keep your woman away from puddles and traffic.
Let her sit down fist
Let’s face it. Forget chivalry, its basic good manners, something most new age men are forgetting. Go in a recall and the next time you’re on a date with a woman you really like, try this out.
There is so much natural dignity and simplicity in this act of ‘putting her first’ in the smallest of ways – a woman notices and then remembers!
Watch you language
Most women… heck… ALL WOMEN love Mr. Darcy! Sometimes I wonder if Mr. Darcy were real would he be the sex symbol that rocked the world of women or what?
The point we’re trying to make here is: be articulate, be smooth, but please don’t be mouthy! We don’t know about trucker ladies, but most women hate men mouthing off expletives at the drop of the hat!
The point we’re trying to make here is: be articulate, be smooth, but please don’t be mouthy! We don’t know about trucker ladies, but most women hate men mouthing off expletives at the drop of the hat!
Carry the umbrella
If it’s raining or too sunny… or if there is one to carry at all – make sure you do it.
Women love the feel of being treated as precious. Holding an umbrella over her head while she walks or crosses the road, just makes her look at you differently. The kind of different you’d wish for!
Women love the feel of being treated as precious. Holding an umbrella over her head while she walks or crosses the road, just makes her look at you differently. The kind of different you’d wish for!
Walk her home
No rocket science. And let’s confess most men do it even if subconsciously.
Walking your date home is the most important ‘to-do’ in your gentleman manual. It make take you out of your way a whole lot, but it sends her a message saying that making sure she’s safe and out of harm’s way is your top priority!
Walking your date home is the most important ‘to-do’ in your gentleman manual. It make take you out of your way a whole lot, but it sends her a message saying that making sure she’s safe and out of harm’s way is your top priority!
Offer your jacket
Women have always adored men who’re willing to brave stuff for them… even if it’s just a gust of cold wind.
In the absence of dragons to slay, start with braving the wind for her. The way she’ll smile back at you will tell you she feels no less than a princess herself.
In the absence of dragons to slay, start with braving the wind for her. The way she’ll smile back at you will tell you she feels no less than a princess herself.
Offer your seat
Don’t be a boor. When in a place where there’s room for just one, offer her your seat.
Women notice. Especially men who offer their seats on public transportation to other women, old people, pregnant ladies… etc. These are the sort of men who make women want to walk up to them an introduce themselves.
Women notice. Especially men who offer their seats on public transportation to other women, old people, pregnant ladies… etc. These are the sort of men who make women want to walk up to them an introduce themselves.
At the table, shut the phone off
… Or at least put it on silent! Sure, women love your hi-flying, globetrotting corporate magnetic appeal but only so long as she doesn’t realize that you’re incapable of giving her five minutes worth of undisturbed attention.
Switch that phone off. Honest advice.
Introduce Her
Much like taking a call when with her, if you fail to introduce her to someone you run into she is left feeling isolated and abandoned. A gentleman always makes sure his date feels comfortable and an important part of this is to have the social awareness to always introduce her to your friends or acquaintances.
Hold the door
Much like holding the chair for her – according to surveys, 90% of the women consider this as the number one gentlemanly gesture. It’s a small, subconscious gesture but it makes a woman feel respected. So hold that door!
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